It is popular to use terms like, "Soul Mate" to describe what you want in a primary partner. As an Spiritual Shawoman and Energy Healer, I caution my clients to shy away from such concepts. When I work with at the Soul Consciousness level of my clients, I have NEVER been shown the partnership called, "Soul Mate."
There are contracts made for transforming old relationship karma. Contracts for a possible long term commitment and never a "One". Usually there are several possible partners who will come into your life by contracts made before birth.
So far you have stepped back to examine the entire space that is Your Relationship Landscape. You have determined qualities of that field, qualities and values that you are committed to Be within your communities. You have also determined the level of your Commitment to your Own Guidance and Inner Wisdom. Now, let's Primary Life Partner. Let's begin with what it is not.
So, what does dysfunctionality look like in Relationships? Here are some signs:
1 .If you are in a bad relationship, but chose to stay because you are afraid to move on 2. Making unrealistic excuses for why you stay in the relationship 3. Not being able to muster up the courage to confront your partner about relationship issues 4. Easily giving in even when you know what’s happening is not good for you 5. Suffering from either physical or mental distress 6. Choosing to ignore the truth that you are unhappy and unwilling to make a change
If you don't do your personal healing work when that relationships ends, you’ll right back in another bad one, unable to make yourself move on and find true happiness.
Being clear on what will not build lasting relationships, transforming those concepts within yourself, will open the door to attract The Healthy, Stable, Loving and Generous Partners that you seek.
The Journey continues... at least for another two outreaches!
There is a powerful evaluation process that I have used over my work as a Spiritual Mystic and Healer. It is a conversation that I have with my client's Guidance Team regarding relationships they are in or are considering. I am offering a FOCUSED SESSION for those in this course. Interested? Check it out....